So there has been a lot happening lately in my life. The details I do not wish to share but the general idea I will.
So we have this family member, not on my side of the family, not blood related to any of us, but unfortunately is in the family who cannot seem to leave her/his ego-centric selfish ways. This person has no heart and no sense of what SHOULD be important in life. I have tried to talk to this person with honestly, I am sure that the truth hurts sometimes, but someone has to dish it out. Might as well be me.
The sad part is that it effects not just myself and this person but other family members as well because this person cannot be honest and upfront with me. Talk about beat around the bush, because that is what he/she does all the time. Honesty is not in his/her vocabulary. All I ask is for the honest truth because that is what I gave, and yet, this person cannot reciprocate.
It is all I can do just to get it off my chest. Most family members that I have talked to, completely agree with my side of the story. I have read comments that both sides have written and yet, it seems to be the majority of the votes, my side.
I would just hope that if there was something I was doing or how I was being perceived was somewhat less than perfect, that a true friend or family member would tell me. I love honesty, I know it hurts sometimes, but honesty is the key.
Honesty=respect.
So we have this family member, not on my side of the family, not blood related to any of us, but unfortunately is in the family who cannot seem to leave her/his ego-centric selfish ways. This person has no heart and no sense of what SHOULD be important in life. I have tried to talk to this person with honestly, I am sure that the truth hurts sometimes, but someone has to dish it out. Might as well be me.
The sad part is that it effects not just myself and this person but other family members as well because this person cannot be honest and upfront with me. Talk about beat around the bush, because that is what he/she does all the time. Honesty is not in his/her vocabulary. All I ask is for the honest truth because that is what I gave, and yet, this person cannot reciprocate.
It is all I can do just to get it off my chest. Most family members that I have talked to, completely agree with my side of the story. I have read comments that both sides have written and yet, it seems to be the majority of the votes, my side.
I would just hope that if there was something I was doing or how I was being perceived was somewhat less than perfect, that a true friend or family member would tell me. I love honesty, I know it hurts sometimes, but honesty is the key.
Honesty=respect.
PS. Just bought a treadmill, hoping to get a little exercise with this pregnancy, I think the 50 lbs. weight gain was a little much last time, I am hoping to cut that in half this time since I am still about 10-15lbs. overweight (well weight above my original pre-baby body size).
PSS. Fair time is quickly approaching, which means back to work, back to school :( I am sad to see it come but I do love the fair. I am going to be able to see Justin Moore & Lady Antebellum at the fair as well as eat some great fair food such as Shive's bread-sticks, Fiske Fries, Strawberry-lemonade shake-ups, Funnel cakes, and the list goes on and on. I definitely will need that treadmill!!
PSS. Fair time is quickly approaching, which means back to work, back to school :( I am sad to see it come but I do love the fair. I am going to be able to see Justin Moore & Lady Antebellum at the fair as well as eat some great fair food such as Shive's bread-sticks, Fiske Fries, Strawberry-lemonade shake-ups, Funnel cakes, and the list goes on and on. I definitely will need that treadmill!!
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